I understand how you feel because we are in the same shoe. All I can advise is when you bathe the baby make sure that the water is lukewarm but if the situation is worst, its good thing not give them a bath at all. After bathing, it also helpful to give baby a massage using cetaphil, physiogel or Kiehls baby nurturing cream. that way, you can lessen the flare and give ease to how baby felt.